Talking to your child about knife crime
Spotting the signs
As a parent or carer you are well placed to spot the signs that your child might be carrying a knife. They may become withdrawn from family and friends and their behaviour may change.
They might lose interest in hobbies and old friends. They might be hanging around with a new group, being vague about what they are up to and staying out late.
They might be secretive or defensive, not wanting to show what they’ve got in their bag.
You might have noticed a knife going missing from the house.
Your child might have told you they are worried and need to carry a knife.
If you have concerns it is important you talk to them or seek help.
How to have the chat
Choose a place and time when you are both comfortable. They might be reluctant to talk, so it might be the case that you discuss a recent news article.
Be patient with them, reassure them, let them know they can be honest with you.
Before you start, have an idea of the law around knife crime, the consequences of carrying a knife and some of the myths around carrying a knife.
What to say
Share your fears for their safety. Let them know they’ve got choices. Let them know that the bravest thing to do is walk away. Walking away might not be easy, but it’s better than getting seriously hurt or killing or seriously injuring someone.
How the police can help
The police will always try not to criminalise young people. They would much rather have the opportunity to address your concerns and the reasons they are carrying a knife before things escalate.
if you’re concerned and would like to seek police help, you can contact them by calling 101, via their website or by contacting your local Safer Neighbourhood Team.